The Ultimate Guide to Planning a Bridal Shower

The Celebrate Team

Congratulations, you've been tasked with planning a bridal shower! Whether you're the maid of honor, a bridesmaid, or a close friend, this is your chance to create a memorable event for the bride-to-be.

But, if this is your first time going through the bridal shower planning process, don't worry, these bridal shower ideas have got you covered.

This ultimate guide to planning a bridal shower will answer any questions you have and leave everyone entertained and the bride feeling loved with memories she can treasure forever.

First Off, What's the Difference Between a Bridal Shower and Bachelorette Party?

While both are pre-wedding celebrations, they have distinct focuses. Like its name suggests, a bridal shower is an event often hosted by the bridal party, where friends and family "shower" the bride-to-be with gifts and well wishes. It's a chance for the bride to bond with her loved ones and play some games in a warm and intimate setting.

On the other hand, a bachelorette party is all about letting loose and celebrating the bride's last days of singlehood. It's a lively and, not always but, sometimes wild affair often involving dancing, drinks, and memorable adventures.

How to Plan the Ultimate Bridal Shower

Think About How You Want to Capture All the Special Memories Throughout the Day

One of the most treasured aspects of any bridal shower is the memories created during the event. Whatever theme you choose, colors you pick, and spread you have, it's important to capture the memories of such a fun day.

And as the planner, you have the unique opportunity to ensure these memories are captured in a special way. This is where a guestbook is a great idea to have laid out.

But, what if you could spice it up? With's Video Guestbook you can. This digital guestbook allows you to easily collect video messages from all the guests, sharing their love, stories, and well wishes for the bride.

And it's simple! All guests have to do is scan a QR code which takes them to the landing page where they can instantly film or automatically upload their video messages. They can even share other clips they captured throughout the day to incorporate in the final video montage.

It's a modern twist on the traditional guestbook, and the bride will be overjoyed to have a collection of heartfelt videos to cherish long after the shower is over.

Choose the Perfect Bridal Shower Theme

The first step in planning a bridal shower is selecting a theme. The theme will set the stage and tone for the entire event, guiding your decisions on everything from the bridal shower decor to the activities to even the food you serve. Consider the bride's personality and preferences when choosing a theme. Whether she's into vintage charm, tropical vibes, elegant glamour, a specific celebrity, or even choosing her favorite color, there's a theme that will suit her tastes instantly.

For instance, if the bride loves all things boho-chic, consider a "Bohemian Bliss" theme with woven decorations, floral arrangements, and a relaxed, outdoor setting.

If she's a fan of classic elegance, you could opt for a gold and champagne themed party, maybe choosing an afternoon high tea spread, with delicate china.

Or, if let's say she's a fan of Beyoncé, there are creative "Feyoncé" decorations to exude Queen B or if she's a die-hard Swiftie, you can always incorporate Taylor Swift's lyrics into all the decor.Whatever theme you choose, it's important to factor in what you think the bride-to-be will love.

Pick a Date and a Venue

When planning the bridal shower, it's important to pick a date and venue that works. Often times, bridal showers are hosted months in advance to the wedding to give plenty of time between events. Coordinate with the bride (or her fiancé if the shower is a surprise) to find a date that works for her, and consider the schedules of the key guests (like the bridal party who you'll probably have help with the planning) as well.

As for the venue, you can opt for a cozy backyard party, a charming tearoom, or even a stylish event space. Just make sure it aligns with the chosen theme and can comfortably accommodate your guest list.

When choosing a venue, think about the atmosphere you want to create. An outdoor garden setting can be perfect for a springtime bridal shower or afternoon tea party, while a cozy indoor space with twinkling lights can add a touch of romance to a winter celebration.

Draft the Guest List of Who to Invite

Consult with the bride on the bridal shower guest list to ensure you include all her nearest and dearest. But, if it's a surprise ask her fiancé, her family, and even members of the bridal party who they think should be invited. Most often than not, bridal showers are usually the bride's female friends or family members, but again it's all dependent on who she's closest to.

Keep in mind that the bridal shower is typically a more intimate gathering than the wedding itself, so aim for a smaller, more manageable guest count.

Send Out the Perfect Invitations

Now, once you've figured out the guest list, it's time to send out invites. Design eye-catching invitations that reflect the chosen theme and give guests a taste of what's to come. You can create custom invitations or use online tools to design digital invites. Be sure to include all the essential details, such as the date, time, location, dress code (if any), and RSVP instructions.

Consider adding a personal touch by including a favorite quote of the bride or a playful hint about the upcoming festivities. This will make the invitations feel special and unique.

Choose On-Theme Decor

Decorations play a vital role in bringing the chosen theme to life. From table settings to banners and centerpieces, every element of the bridal shower decorations should harmonize with the overall aesthetic. Use colors, flowers, and decor that resonate with the bride's style and personality. Don't forget to consider personalized touches like photos and memorable quotes.

If you're going for a rustic-chic theme, incorporate burlap table runners, mason jar centerpieces, and wooden signs. For a glamorous Hollywood-inspired shower, opt for metallic accents, sequin tablecloths, and a red carpet entrance.


Set-up a Spread of Delightful Food and Drinks

A bridal shower isn't complete without delicious treats and refreshing beverages. Depending on the time of day, you can opt for a brunch, lunch, or afternoon tea. Consider the bride's favorite foods and any dietary restrictions of the guests. Don't forget to include a beautiful cake or sweet treats that match the theme. As for drinks, offer a variety of options, including mocktails, cocktails, and non-alcoholic beverages.

For example, at a brunch-themed bridal shower you set up a mimosa bar with different fruit juices and bubbly, allowing guests to create their own customized drinks. If the bride has a sweet tooth, consider a dessert table filled with cupcakes, macarons, and a stunning tiered cake as the centerpiece.

Keep Guests Entertained with Activities and Games

Keep the energy high with fun activities and bridal shower games that will entertain the guests and create lasting memories. Bridal shower classics? Get creative with DIY crafts, a photo booth, or even a dance-off.

But, one way to keep the laughs going is to introduce's Bridal Shower & Bachelorette Game. With our twist on the Newlywed Game, you just need tosend a link over to the groom before the bridal shower kicks off. The groom gets to answer a bunch of fun questions on video, showing off how well he really knows the bride-to-be.

And the questions can be all sorts of fun: from "Where's the number one places she wants to travel?" to "What's the most hilarious thing she's ever spilled to you?" Feel free to get creative: the quirkier the questions, the better the answers!

Now, imagine the scene at the bridal shower: you, the other friends, and family all get to take on the very same questions that the groom was put through. The mission? Guess what his answers were!

Cue the quizmaster (whether it's the maid of honor or someone else who's part of the bridal party) they'll play the video clips, pausing at each question, and then reveal what the groom actually said. Get ready for lots of laughter, and who knows, maybe even a few blushes from the bride-to-be!

Did we mention this is also a great game to play for a Bachelorette?

Put Together Thoughtful Party Favors and Prizes

Show appreciation to the guests by providing thoughtful party favors that align with the theme. It could be small keepsakes, scented candles, or even personalized cookies. And don't forget to prepare some delightful prizes for the game winners. The prizes could range from spa gift baskets to gift cards or other cute trinkets.

Celebrate the Bride with Fun and Personal Bridal Shower Gifts

Time to show some love and get creative with those bridal shower gifts! This is your chance to add a personal touch and really celebrate the bride-to-be. 

If the bridal shower isn't a surprise, meaning the bride is pretty involved, you may want to think about setting up a gift registry of things she specifically requests. But, if you're planning to surprise her, this is an opportunity to get creative with your gifts. 

While silk robes, skincare, and lingeries are popular options, it's a good time to also think outside the box consider what truly lights up her world.

Is she a bookworm? A custom book club membership could be just the thing. Does she love pampering herself? A spa day gift certificate could make her day. Personalized keepsakes, like monogrammed towels or a custom-made photo album, are also a heartwarming option. And let's not forget the laughter: a funny and memorable gift can be a hit, like a quirky piece of art that'll make her smile every time she sees it.

The key here is to choose something that reflects her personality, brings joy, and shows that you've put some thought into making her feel special.

Send Out Thank You Cards After

After the bridal shower, take the time to send out thank-you cards to all the guests. A handwritten note expressing gratitude for their presence and thoughtful gifts goes a long way in showing your appreciation. You can also include a link to the shared memories captured through your Video Guestbook, allowing the guests to relive the joyous moments.

Have Fun and Celebrate

Last but certainly not least, remember to have fun! The bridal shower is a celebration of love, friendship, and the exciting journey ahead for the bride. Embrace the joy of the moment, and your positive energy will undoubtedly make the event even more memorable for everyone involved.

The Final Details

In conclusion, planning a bridal shower is a wonderful opportunity to create a magical and memorable experience for the bride-to-be. From selecting the perfect theme to capturing heartfelt memories through the Video Guestbook to having some laughs with the Bridal Shower & Bachelorette game, every step you take contributes to a day filled with laughter, love, and joy.

And, if you decide you want to do both the Guestbook and the "Newlywed-inspired game," you can always purchase both, and save, through the Honeymooners Bundle.

As you embark on this journey, keep in mind the bride's preferences, interests, and style. Your efforts will result in a bridal shower that's not only a joyous occasion but also a heartfelt expression of your love and care for the bride.

So, gather your ideas, rally your fellow bridesmaids or friends, and embark on this exciting adventure to create an unforgettable bridal shower that the bride will cherish forever.

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